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Small West Texas Town

     Recently I went to a small West Texas town for a family funeral.  For me funerals are something you go to for the loved ones left behind.  Every funeral is different however follow the same pattern.  Normally they are 3 days after the passing of the individual, not usually on Sundays, and normally around 2 PM.   

     In recent years it's become popular to show a slide show of photos of the loved one and their family.  It is a great way to remember the life of the loved one that has gone on.  It's tough though for the family members to sort through those pictures to get the slide show ready.   There are so many memories that come from those photos.  A lot of them are ones we have not thought of in ages.  It's a good way to say goodbye.  

     There are a number of observations I made from this Small West Texas Town.  I am going to share these to laugh and enjoy as much as I did with this short visit. 

  • People are honestly genuine, and polite.  There were people that showed real remorse and had a kind smile. 
  • People said hello and asked how I was doing, while most had no idea who I was, because it didn't matter.  They were raised the right way.  
  • Big Hair is alive in Texas!!! There were PLENTY of big hair do's and the age range was young to old on the women wearing the styles.  Most everyone was tastefully done and fitting for their given outfits.  
  • There are men and women, that still know how to dress appropriately.  They were put together, starched and trimmed.  Women wore patterns that were tasteful and fun, men wore felt hats and shined up cowboy boots.  All appropriate attire for an event such as this one.  
  • People love to laugh and they love to make others laugh.  It is a great way to help with the healing process.  People know this and are willing to help each other out during these times of need.  
  • Respect is something that is earned.  People came to pay their respect to a person who was widely respected in the area and known for their good heart.  They spent many years doing right by others and working hard for their family.  Their reward is knowing they are saved and at peace now with their lord savior.  
  • People still believe in the golden rule, Do onto others as you would have them do unto you.  This is a good thing in my book!
     I love many things about Small West Texas Towns.  It reminds me that good people do exist.  It reminds me that just because internet access may be limited and you drive to do anything, that you can not keep up with the ages.  Small West Texas towns are some of the best I ever visit.  If you ever get a chance to spend some time in these towns, you will honestly see how the "real" other half live.  They live happily tucked away in these treasure troves of towns.  Filled with history and even some excitement. 

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